Autism/adhd so sorry if this is worded poorly
I wrote out my problem, and articulated it so i could talk to her about how i dont feel cared for, how i want more physical intimacy and i want her to be more proactive to make me feel cared for and loved.
Not sex, i dont need lots of sex i just want a person i can 'not be' around if that makes sense.
So i opened up to her, im trying to be better about that and maybe im just dumb but it feels like she just invalidated everything i said and made it all about me wanting to get laid, even though that wasnt even part of the discussion.
I just want her to be there for me in the way that i need am i asking too much? I dont want her to fix my problems or be my therapist i just want her to hold me while i stop existing for a while, i want her to instigate it to care about me.
Maybe im demanding to much expecting her to read my mind i dont know