My (21F) fiancé (25M) has erectile disfunction and its making me insecure
Hi guys,
The title is pretty self explanatory. My fiancé and I have been together almost 2 years. For the past year he’s barely experienced a “morning wood”. He’s been having erectile issues pretty much since the beginning, even though I didn’t really notice it. He said it was due to him being nervous that he couldn’t get, or stay hard. It has gotten worse over time. It often happens then he gets flaccid mid-blowjob or mid- penetration. He’s never had any issues like this before, which makes me a little self conscious.
He is still very horny daily, but has trouble staying hard. He also takes a very long time to cum. In the beginning of your relationship he was only able to cum trough penetration, but that was also due to me being inexperienced. Even though it varies, he usually takes really long to cum. Sometimes we’re going at it for 30 minutes to an hour and he tells me he just can’t cum. Same for blow- and handjobs. But then there are times when it takes 10 minutes with penetration, that’s very short for us.
He stopped watching porn for about 6 months now and he barely masturbates anymore. I always try my best to comfort him whenever he gets soft, I tell him it’s okay and we just hug and kiss. I know he’s self conscious about it so I try not to make it a big deal. But it’s bee slowly eating away at my confidence.
Has anyone else dealt with this in their relationship? Is it something I should be worried about?
Thankyou so much!