u/GlaceEx11

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So, 2/13/2026 my girlfriend shows up to my house to take me to work and informs me that she is considering breaking up with me because her parents started fighting with her about how they don't like me datingnher cause im not "husband material" because i dont have my license, my own place or a good enough job. Fast forward to a week later we havent talked but I decide to reach out and we start talking again. She tells me she still imagines being my future wife. But then the next day she suddenly says she's unsure cause the droving me to and from work was stressing her out. So i reminded her that that makes no sense for her to fall out of love with me cause we had talked about it and the day she broke up with me was planned by us to be the last day she'd be taking me to work. Then we start hanging out agin and things are going well she tells me several times that she wishes i had been in her bed at the monet so she could sleep better and that she wishes that we never go a day not talking ever again. The. I have surgery on my knee on 3/16/2026. And the weekend of 3/27/2026 my family was going out of town and she was going to stay over and help take care of me while I couldn't walk. And next thing i know she sends me texts showing that her parents are fighting with her about her doing so and so she decides not to come over wt all. Then later that day because she said she was thinking it might be best that we stop talking but she wasnt sure yet. So my dad suggested i do the in his words "mayure" thing and tell her that to keep her from the stress of her family that we shiuld stop talking and to start removing her from evrhthing. And in my moment of panic i listened. Then realized it was a mistake and deleted the message and apologized and told her i loved her and didnt want to lose her again. And then i called her a few times but she didnt pick up. Then at 10 pm that night she came back saying we shouldnt talk anymore and that shes sorry that its the best solution she could think of and so she blocked me on everything. The first week or so after the blocking i tried several ways to reach out and try to figure out why she did it. Then i finally calmed down and stopped until i ran into her at her work cause i thought she was off and it was safe to go there to not bother her so i got excited and messaged her again. Then i decide im gonna get my license to prove her parents wrong and tbat she shiuld come back and my plan was to go in the day after the appointment which was eet up for 5/13/2026. And well my parents told me there was no way id be ready jn time and i panicked and afyer a long set of events i ended up creatinf a second phone number on my phone and calling her, that was a week ago. Then this past Saturday my brother told me he spoke to her and she told him I need to move on and that she moved on and fell out of love a while ago, hut that doesnt add up to evrything that happened. He also said she said that the parents thing was an excuse(which doesnt seem believable cause I saw the proof of her parents arguing eith her and that day they expressed their dislike of me dating her and it matched with what she said and the way things were after the breakup, with her still wanting to cuddle and nap together and we'd hold hands when walking together and yeah) And so now we're at today and idk what to do. Also, one of our mutual acquaintances told me that whenever he'd talk to her and asked about things with me she apparently wouldl light up and become a differnet and happier person and that he believes there is no way that she would ever fall out of love with me with how much he saw tbat she loved me and how he saw her looking at me and stuff

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u/GlaceEx11 — 3 days ago