It's eating me alive that my ex has completely detached after our 3-year relationship. I really need help moving on.
Lately, I’ve been in a really dark place and I miss her so much. It is absolutely eating me alive from the inside to know that she has become completely detached from me. She has zero feelings left for me now and just treats our 3-year relationship like a closed chapter in her life.
It makes me sick to my stomach to think that she is going to talk to someone else, flirt with them, and smile because of another guy. The thought that she might go on dates and touch someone else the exact same way she used to touch me—without even sparing a single thought about me—is unbearable.
I keep imagining her friends consoling her by saying things like, "It's a good thing you guys broke up, you weren't compatible anyway, he was terrible," and her just laughing along with them.
I am genuinely failing at moving on. I feel completely stuck and it hurts too much. Please, if anyone has been through this, how do I get past it? Can someone please help me?