I don't know how you people do this
For serial adulterers, I don't know how you guys do this. I was never a cheater but I indulged in an on/off affair for 3+ years with another stay at home parent. We were both in neglected marriages and I caught feelings and honestly my husband didn't even notice, which speaks volumes about what I'm working with.
I moved recently and we said we would just stay friends. That was naive of me, but I really cared about this person and if I could keep him in my life to any degree I would be happy. Well, he started ignoring my messages and now I think he blocked me. I realize I can face my marriage or find fulfillment in another affair and I know I'm going to do the right thing. My heart can't take this again. I'm sorry I ever indulged. I should have made better choices. If you were on the fence of an affair and reading this, I hope my experience serves as a cautionary tale.