Lately, I’ve been seeing a massive surge of guys on Grindr who are openly looking to cheat on their partners, and it’s honestly starting to worry me. I even hooked up with one guy recently and realised midway through there was a photo in the bedroom of him and his partner. It's not the first time I've found out a guy wasn't single after hooking up with them, either.
It’s made me realise that if I found out a guy had a history of cheating in his past relationships, I don’t think I would feel able to trust him again. To me, it feels like a pattern of how someone handles their emotions or boredom, not just a "mistake."
Would you ever give someone a chance if you knew they had a history of cheating in their past, and would you stay if you got cheated on? I feel like a second chance is just asking to get hurt again, but I’m interested to hear from those who have actually lived through it.