u/Glass-Possibility519

am i wrong for being upset with my friend for embarassing me infront of my crush who likes her?

i have this boy i have a crush on and im seriously head over heels for him. we're both in the same class, and i also have this one friend, lets call her rosy.

rosy knwos all about my crush. we call him iron (his codename) and we've had this silly miscommunication where me and rosy were talking about iron. she says "iron" a lot to tease me in our class groupchat and no one else knows about my crush and his codename.

however, irons friend SOMEHOW connected the dots and assumed that the so called iron was rosy's crush and that "iron" was the codename.

we shook it off as a silly miscommunication and ddint say anything to defend ourselves because we didnt think anything of it.

irons friends call rosy "iron" to tease her.iron thinks that rosy is the one who likes him.

i know i am wrong for this but i feel terribly insecure whenever they call my friend, who's gorgeuos, skinny and beautiful, "iron". i am so much fatter and uglier compared to her, and all the boys like her, including iron.

i know iron likes her , its very obvious. he looks at her constantly, blushes when she's arounf and enjoys when people call him iron.

iron is the codename i made for him and hes getting shipped with my friend :(

my friend told me she didnt like him though, so it made me feel slightly better

today, my teeth hurt and i put medicine on my mouth which made my entire mouth swell up and my voice sounded funny and muffled.

i sent my friend a voicenote singing, which was pretyy embarassing to be honest, bit i didnt think anything of it, because i wws havin fun.

she forwarded my singing to iron, and made an ai image of iron responding "what the hell!?", which made my heart skip a beat. i was so shocked and was freakimg out.

then, my friend, after loke 5 minutes, told me thay it was ai and showed me a ss of the prompt. she said she deleted the message before he replied and said she just wanted to prank me.

okay, at that point i was already cooled down, because i thoight nothing else would hapen. then ,after like 10 minutes she told me "hey iron message me asking me if i sent him anything, should i respond?"

i feel even more suspicious because she didnt send a ss of their conversation ot anything:(

i know this is very silly but i feel so weird. the way my friend forwarded my voicenote to the person I LIKED and askrd me if she should respond.

does this break girl code?

am i overthinking? becuase i think i would never ever message my friends crush who likes me and try to embarass my friend.

i know that i shouldnt feel so insecure over this, but i know that my crush likes my friend and everything feels so weird :(

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u/Glass-Possibility519 — 21 hours ago