28M Constant Quarrels with 26F no fixes or reconciliation or affection
Hi i am 28m married 26f. We had been dating for 5 months when we told our parents. We stay in the same society as my parents and go home for meals.
I work from home and she runs a boutique out of our place. We both do decently and money is never really an issue our lifestyles are the same.
It's the constant temper problems we both have. I do get agitated quickly, so does she. After an hour I do cool down and try to reconcile and expect her to at least try and reciprocate.
Whenever she gets agitated, and I try to explain if I do the same to her, we'll end up fighting. Her explanation is I'm taking all the tantrums of the house, in laws are doing this and that. Been married 3 months, and I'm just wondering why.
I'm not really looking for solutions, it's situational and I know the nuances of things can be delicate.
I'm really just looking for lads who are going through the same, or even women stuck in loveless marriages. Just wanna vent, just need some reaffirmation that it'll settle down coz right now I'm really breaking apart. Why did we effin do this to ourselves lol