u/Glittering-Flow9401

Broke up with my long term partner and I suppressed my dominant side for a bit. I really want a man who can worship my feet and let me hit him or serve but I feel so out of practice. I have not spoken with a sub in a long while and I need help.

I’m a small woman and I prefer to dom men much larger than I am but I feel like I can never slap them hard enough. I’d like advice on how to resolve this and how I can use a mix of degradation and praise or activities/tasks for a male sub. I always felt like it was easier for me to handle a female sub but I have never actually handled a man. Any advice will do.