u/Glittering-Tone5338

So my SO has stated he feels disrespected that my son, 14 yo, did not attend his sons, 4 yo, bday. My son spends weekends with his father and the previous weekend he spent with us. And the next weekend we rented a room at GWL water park for his son’s birthday. I don’t feel like my son is wrong so not wanting to attend. & I personally do not believe in forcing anything onto my son unless it’s cleaning his room, doing his homework, etc. Him choosing to stay with his dad is not a problem to me. I think him feeling “disrespected” by a 14 year old choosing to stay with his dad on his dad’s weekend is ridiculous.

Am I wrong?