Im stuck
my fiance and I have been together for 4 years, in the beginning we had sex all the time explore and had an amazing time, he was sweet and we spent so much time together.
over the years he started expressing interest in me sleeping with other men and I pushed it off and didnt want that.
then he brought up cucking and how much he fantasize about it. He constantly sent memes and stuff and I played along thinking it was just fantasy but when id remind him im not doing it he would get mad. eventually he wore me down and I did it and I was miserable doing it but I loved the connection and love he gave me after. He became almost addicted to it though and wanted it more often and wouldnt have sex with me unless I did it.
I became so desperate for his approval I would lie and sit in a parking lot and send him some porn video close up and he never realized it was fake until he found out and now he wont touch me at all unless I do it..
Iv tried playing with his other fantasies of being a femdom and stuff but he always brings it back to wanting to be cucked.
he is a very hard man to read, he can be grumpy and has a hard time expressing emotions, I try to be patient and give him a safe space to do so but he just can say the rudest things sometimes. I dont know why I have such a desire to want to keep him happy and get his approval at the expense of my own morals and safety. I hate meeting random guys off the internet and requesting std tests from my doctor regularly but I dont know how to get out of this.