u/Glittering_Fold6870

i've been planning my wedding for over a year. venue is booked. deposits are paid. invitations already went out. wedding is in three months.

my sister just announced she's pregnant and is due the same week as my wedding. she wants me to change the date so she can be there.

i said no. now she's crying and my parents say i'm being difficult.

i love my sister but i can't just reschedule everything. am i the jerk?

TL;DR: Sister is due same week as my wedding. Wants me to change the date. I said no.