Tried helping my ex’s girlfriend girl-to-girl… she twisted everything against me...
Pata hai aaj kya hua... A few years ago, my ex cheated on me with his current girlfriend during a rough phase in our relationship. Back then I warned her once that if he could cheat on a long-term relationship so easily, he could eventually do the same to her too. After that, I stayed out of their relationship completely.
For the next 3 years, he still kept contacting me through random apps after being blocked everywhere calls, “miss you,” “love you,” "wanna meet you" " he used to get drunk at times and bang my door", all while being with her. I never went out of my way to tell her anything because I felt I had already warned her once.
Recently she finally found out he was talking to multiple girls and also still messaging me. SHE contacted me first asking for help, clarity, and the truth. We talked for hours. She cried, vented, asked questions, and I genuinely supported her girl to girl. I told her about my experience, his patterns, and the cheating stories mutual friends had told me over the years. She herself cursed him, made fun of him in every manner she could.
She promised me this conversation would stay between us. And she would become so called baddy and take revenge on him now , and asked me to never tell him anything.
Now here’s the funny part.
The VERY NEXT DAY, my ex contacted me AGAIN asking if we could meet.
That annoyed me so much that I texted his girlfriend saying, “he is pathetic.”
And suddenly she switched sides completely.
She took only THAT screenshot, sent it to him, and then told him about our entire conversation from the previous day TWISTING EVERYTHING,
She conveniently skipped the part where SHE contacted me first asking for help, skipped the part where HE was still messaging me behind her back, and instead made it sound like I was randomly trying to poison her against him.
Now my ex is calling me saying, “Why are you ruining my image? Why are you lying about me?”
Honestly, what bothers me most isn’t even that she told him. It’s that she lied while telling him. If she had simply told him the actual truth, he probably wouldn’t even have had the confidence to call and harass me afterward.
Lesson learned: sometimes people don’t want honesty, they just want material for their relationship drama.
Now I want you guys to suggest, shall I call/ text my ex and tell him the truth or let him think whatever she feeds him?