I'm lost. Me (18M), and my gf, well ex gf...i'm still not sure about that (18F) had some hard times and I stupidly went and talked to another girl about them.
Continuing on.
Unfortunately, my friend also tried to put me on with that same girl at the same time. I didn't think this would matter because I just hoped we'd get past these hard times (arguments like literally every day), and we did. So I brushed it under the rug. Realistically, now I should've told her, seeing her reaction. My GF had bought me a PS5 around this time aswell. You might be wondering why that's relevant. That's because when I was venting to the other girl, I did say my girl had bought the PS5. However, I never mentioned nothing more about it. More on that later. But as I was saying. There was also another situation that doesn't help my case. Well, to me it seemed like dumb school stuff, but realistically I should've seen it as more than that. A classmate (also...female, cool on me, I didn't do anything bad here but it looks like shit), had her phone taken by another student (my other male friend) as a joke, and he made her think I had it. So she follows me, asking if I had it and I'm genuinely confused, I'm saying no, I don't. Now I made the fatal mistake of smiling, because I was actually lost. Turns out someone recorded the whole interaction (well just when I was smiling) and showed it to my now ex, and she was fuming. But I tried to make the point that, I genuinely didn't have the phone, as bad as it looked. She wasn't having it (fair enough), so I'm in a sticky predicament.
Oh yeah, the PS5, she bought for me as a gift, and I genuinely don't wanna part ways with it (had it for a while), so that's something in of itself.
And last thing, she also said she'd cheated, but I don't know if she said that because of what was happening in the moment or just as the truth.
But yeah, what do I even do at this point?
(also keep in mind, the group of friends who were friends with the other girl, are telling my ex that I never claimed her as my SO, but I did, all the time actually, so I'm just asking to see if this is reconciliable at all.)
Thank you again, I'm awaiting ur opinions.