u/Glittering_Pop_5358

okay so i'm from nashville, and been going to the gym for over a year now and i started observing this cute woman for a month or so , she had no wedding ring on and she was pretty flirty ish with other guys too, so i thought hmm maybe i should talk to her see how it goes, she is tall around maybe 5'9 looked around her mid 20s(found out she was 29 later) she has a slender body but not really thin just overall a really good looking and fit woman that had the good stuff in the right areas, we both worked out around the same time in the evening and mornings on the weekends, and after a few weeks of talking i said if she was taken and she said no she is new to the city, she is originally from australia(her obvious accent gave it away) but apparently she was in a long distance relationship with her boyfriend here but ended it a year ago(andd that was a lie) she then said how about you come over to my place on a weekend, it was a pretty good neighbourhood and her house looked really good too, which made me sus cause how does one live in this house and be alone? like it had to cost around 3 or 4 million atleast, but she said her dad helped buy it as he knew people in the real estate and she lucked out, and yeah this is when we did it, i really just wanted a casual hookup and i got it, but when i got to know something was off is when i asked to see her again she gave the most generic reasons or just ignore me, she even stopping coming to the gym(atleast the times i would come), and i thought hmm yeah i guess thats it we both got what we wanted a simple hookup, but then months later she asked me to meet up again, and we had sex again this night aswell, in total we did it for 7 or 8 times across 2 years, but it was all spaced out which made me really sus and this is when i found out that she is actually a youtuber and is also married, without telling the name in public lets just say she has over 1 million subs, i just don't know where else to say this, should i have texted the husband? and ruin a marriage or shouldd i air it in a sub where people can brush it off as fake, i felt the later was better cause atleast it would mean i can get it off my chest