Doesn't the fact that men in romance/smut novels for women being usually hung fundamentally mean that women ultimately desire well endowed men above all else?
People constantly tell me that most women don't care about penis size which I think is bullshit. Women constantly buy big dildos, consume porn/erotica featuring hung men, chase after hung men, make fun of men with small penises, and if you look at TV Shows like "Sex and The City" or "Fleabag", shows written by women for women, big dicks are put on a pedestal.
I think the real smoking gun is the all the men in those smut romantasy novels having huge cocks among other stereotypical attributes like being tall or muscular prove that bigger is clearly better for a lot of women in most cases.