AIO - partner asked if my parents were related...twice
I'm from Europe and my partner is from South America. We both live in a different country now. We met here and have never met each others families.
A year ago, my partner asked if my parents were related as I mentioned they were both from a poor farming background in my home country. I was super shocked and said of course not, what ever gave you that idea? It really shocked me so I remembered it.
Fast forward a year, he casually brings it up again a few days ago, "aren't your parents related?". I was shocked again, you think I'm a product of incest/inbreeding? He said he didn't remember asking before.
He thinks I'm over reacting. That he meant no malice by it. I said even if he didn't mean to be malicious, I'm still offended and frankly shocked. He hasn't apologised.
AIO?