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So I've never personally been to a rave but I've been a psychonaut for 6 years now and have always wanted to go to a rave. My girlfriend has some pretty bad social anxiety to the point that every time we're in someplace like Walmart she says it feels like everyone in the store is watching her the entire time. I want to help provide her with experiences that will lead to her social anxiety reducing and was thinking that a rave might just be the place to do it, at some point in the future that is. I was wondering if anyone had any tips, advice, or specific USA hosted raves that would be good to introduce her to?