Hi guys,
I am currently in the process of a divorce with false allegations from my ex partner.
Usually known as « Silver Bullet ». It is reallly painfull as I have children and as I have faced similar situation as a child.
I met my asian wife (soon to be ex-wife) twenty years ago, while we were students, at the same University in a well-developped country in Europe.
More than 20 years ago, but things can change through the years and it wasn’t me...
She was from China. She came as an exchanged student, with scholarship.
We married after two years, even if we still were students, as it was a big romantic story for us. It drove us all a round the world, because of my job. From the early beggining she was really supportive and we weren’t especially conservative or traditionnal. We just let the nature course.
She wasn’t really materialistic at all as I was a poor student when she decided to commit in our relationship.
But…ironically I was the only one to support the whole family for all these years as the sole breadwinner.
I looked for job opportunities that could compensate the fact that she didn’t want to work. I ended in a « traditional » scheme: husband working and stay at home wife.
Then when I got tired after many different expatriatio ns all over the world, and after two kids BTW, I had to acknowledge that she became so westernized, in the worst way possible : entitled, ungratefull, arrogant, and most dangerous thing: she switched fast from honest caregiver and stay at home to « victim of the patriarchy » when she heard the word« divorce ». So be carefull homies.
I cannot tell the endless suffering journey that it is for for my kids and myself when she decided that she had to flip the script, by using all the western stereotypes against me to destroy our family.
I always offered options instead of expensive and exhaustives court processes. But she became crazy when she realized that she lost her « breadwinner ».
I feel that I have been a weird kind of passeport bro.
As I did not really intend to marry a foreign girl. I just met her on my own (western) country. She took advantage of me for years, until I realized the harsh truth that she just saw me as a fucking provider.
Of course she changed her nationality through our marriage.
But later, she evolved into a rotten pokémon, taking all the bad side of the western women while loosing everything that was charming from her own original culture/background.
(sorry for the clumsy way I wrote that message, english is definitely not my mothertongue).
I have always been really popular with Asian girls. But now, I took a step back (a huge one, i.e 20 years…), and I realized that I was a passeport bro whitout even the willing to be one…
Take care guys. I was a young beautiful guy from the West that enjoyed a girl from the East for years. Even build a family with her.
But when it comes to accountability : nothing matters for women. She can just play tricks, the system in our western self-proclamed developped countries will protect her anyway, no matter the amount of lies and you will be the guilty by default, even if you are innocent. It is a sexist biais that operate through the whole system.
So: do you really want a « tradwife » that will ultimately turn into the awful women you try to escape? Social medias are a poison that will use her free time not to open her mind but to brainwash the few traditionnal traits that matters in her personality (and about China: making her realised the communist brainwash was a loooonnng and painful process….)