r/thepassportbros

Where can I find a white woman? The United States is cooked. I, myself am White.

34 years old with a decent nest egg and Net Worth.

For me it would be a woman who is ready to have children, no promiscuity in her past and would also stay at home to raise the children

I’m dating a girl in the Philippines. We talked for a long time and I stayed there for a while with her. Her family loves me we have a good relationship and love each other. But long story short I’ve been honest with her about my sexual past. Completely. And I thought she was too. One night she finally said she gave a blowjob to a guy. I wouldn’t have cared had she told me that in the multiple times we discussed our past. She explained she felt horrible and didn’t wanna say because she was scared I would judge her or not want her. Part of me feels if she lied about that what else is she lying about essentially. Just wondering if anyone else has been in something similar before?

People really don't read just go "that's the culture".

What kind of a fantastic culture where you need to provide for the whole family if you are a man, but only if you are foreign. The native men there can have no means of providing, in some cases jobless. But they are allowed to spawn in as many kids as they want. That is normal by their culture?

But within their culture it's the responsibility of the foreign guy to pay for everyone else's bad choice? How convenient

If you can't afford a child and need to rely on your sisters boyfriend for help, then I have a solution.... don't have a child.

On paper it sounds good:

- Beautiful east Asian, ethnically Chinese women

- Interesting culture, more traditionally Chinese than communist mainland

- More affordable than Japan and Korea

- Warmer climate than Japan and Korea

- Open internet unlike mainland

- More polite people than mainland

- Higher English ability than Japan or mainland

- More developed than SEA

- Small size, easy to explore

- Relatively strong passport should you decide to travel with a woman

- Can still live a similar lifestyle to SEA, ride a motorbike, explore jungles etc

I've met and gone on some Tinder dates with Taiwanese women abroad. But how is it in Taiwan for ppbs?

25M going to Manila for two weeks with the only objective of experiencing of having a date for the first time in my life, so I feel like I need some advice.

I'm conventionally unattractive, 5'4" (163 cm), 62 kg (137 lbs), started balding, and feel depressed about having zero experience with women at this age. I'm also from the Balkans, so I don't have a big budget like people from the US or Western countries.

I've booked an Airbnb for only 3 nights, but after that, I have no plans. I'm thinking of using dating apps, and if that doesn't work, I'd probably pay.

But I need some advice from people who know how things work there.

Has anyone tried dating overseas without apps. I heard Japan is a good candidate as they don't use apps as much. I don't use social media and can't seem to take good photos of myself. Should I just get over it or are there places that are better than others.

Thanks

I’m a Muslim, who has experience with conventional dating, as well as Muslim ‘dating’.

I found the dynamics the same.

Women are highly selective, have a narrow range of what’s deemed acceptable, but it’s harder with Muslims because you have additional religious and cultural filters to navigate.

There’s even specific Muslim marriage apps, which let you match with women abroad. The dynamics are the exact same as Western dating, just with a smaller and more selective pool.

This brings me back to Passport bros, if the dynamics between supposedly conservative and traditional Muslim women are no different to Western dating dynamics, what makes being a Passport Bro easier?

Is it specifically the casual nature?

I have to humbly apologize for the stupid shit I put out here in the past in defending foreign women. In the past I used to defend them especially from seemingly humble regions of the world from North Africa, Middle East, Italy and South America.

I unfortunately was tricked by a "humble" women from Tunisia that I thought was kind, loving and respectful. She turned out to be a fuckin fraud. She's Muslim who was anything but religious. All the while I went out with her I thought I had struck gold, I finally thought I found the one and was going to marry her. Unfortunately she showed her true dark colors.

Huge red flag: She turned out to be a frequest thief who steals from stores like Sephora, Zara, H&M, retail stores, and tourist stores. But hold on folks, thats not even the worst part. The worst part was she taught her 10 year old son to steal too! I witnessed this to my utter horror when I invited them to visit NYC to meet my family. Bad mistake.

One night we went to times square and I actually saw her tell her kid to steal eyeliners, lipsticks, and perfumes in Sephora. When we went to H&M she stole futbol shirts for her kid. I mean, if you're going to steal, at least risk your own ass going to jail, don't involve your little son. She turned out to be no good and tonight I broke up with her.

Sadly I spent good money on someone I thought was going to be my future wife. Thank god I decided to kick her pitiful evil ass out of my life. Better to have wasted $4k in 4 years than $400k over the span of a marriage. This story in addition to other fucked up stories involving Filipinas, Brazilians, Columbians, Moroccans, Persians, etc, highlights the wickedness of these foreign women. Do yourselves a favor and don't get duped! Always check out their actions and body language, what they say and how they say it. Just remember that you're always vetting them.

Remember, just cuz as PPBs we travel in hopes of finding good foreign women doesn't mean they're really "good." Keep your guard up always. If you see them do something against your ethics, call them out on it. DO NOT WAIT and LET THEM GO IMMEDIATELY!!

Even in places like Thailand, as a guy you’re constantly being compared. The girls who were on dating apps before you will still be there after you. They can basically pick guys like they’re choosing from a catalog lol.

A girl from Bangkok told me she compares her matches with her friends and a lot of the time they’re literally talking to the same guys. And that’s in a city with millions of people. Basically everyone is fishing in the same small pool of guys they actually find attractive.

If a girl wants a guy with a certain job, ethnicity, height, style, whatever... she can just filter for it. There’s always another guy to compare you to.

As a guy it sometimes feels like you’re not even a person anymore, you’re just another product on the shelf. Height, looks, job, money, lifestyle, pics... swipe, compare, next.

And if you’re not good enough on paper, you’re replaceable. There’s always another guy waiting.

Honestly it’s brutal. Social media + dating apps have completely changed dating. As a guy there’s so much pressure to be successful, look good, have money, have an interesting life etc. Otherwise you’re just one of 100 other options.

I am not good at telling them apart from real women. I am not interested in dating a ladyboy. So how do I avoid it in the dating game in Thailand?

How to know if he is serious? They said, if you’re looking for a serious relationship, don’t meet someone who has been to the Philippines a couple of times. They are not serious.