r/thepassportbros

The truth about Chinese women:

They have really LOW standards.

Many of them are still poor and grew up studying all day.

They don't know much about feminism.

They didn't watch much TV with all the handsome guys.

The boys they grew up with look pretty bad.

Lack of protein, chronic stress, parents dress them like shit.

Bad air + lack of skincare = BIG nerf for looks.

All this combined and Chinese girls have MUCH lower standards for looks.

You can be ugly, but still score big if you treat them well and provide.

BUT....

This is all going to change over time.

Kpop, Tiktok, minidramas etc are hitting Chinese girls hard and condition them to looksmaxxed men.

This generation of young Chinese women will be the last to be preyed upon easily by ugly guys.

https://x.com/linahuaa/status/2073734882724098532?s=61

Hey I’m planning a trip at the end of the month to Cartagena, but it seems that all the hotel / Airbnb don’t allow guest. Is there anywhere that’s safe and allow my “cousin “ to visit me.

Thanks in advance 🫡

Me: 25M/white/5'10/speaks Spanish

I get pretty consistent dates in the US on hinge, but I ran a fresh dating app profile for 2 weeks in Medellin (1 week ahead and 1 week there) as a test, and these were my stats I just pulled from the profile data request:

Outgoing "yes": 383

Outgoing "no": 583

Incoming "yes": 324

Incoming "no": 1524

With this I had probably 100 matches and 3 dates, 2 of which I invited straight over and hooked up with. Normal girls, no $, no scolp/robbing/anything like that. I only had a week but if I had more time, I no doubt I could have met a lot more women.

To be fair, the super hot ones I did match with would filter me out pretty quick and ask "are you on vacation"/"do you live here". Totally valid, too. I only wanted to mess with girls who were on the same page as I. That said I have no doubt if I was living there that I could pull even hotter girls who are looking for something long term. Also, I don't think a 9 or 10 anywhere in the world is going to come straight over and be dtf.

This leads me to my point: why did I hear Medellin is cooked? I'm pretty happy with my time there, but could I have had even better results elsewhere? I wanted to visit beyond just pulling girls, but it makes me feel like the dudes complaining are the ones who get no play at home anyway. Or that I missed the golden age and it could have been even better?

Divorced four years ago and I’ve been trying to date since and it’s been an absolute hell. Luckily my ex-wife and I get along well and we have a son together who’s just the coolest little dude ever

The only women I’ve dated that were even remotely successful were women that had just moved here from other countries, especially Latin America.

They were interested in learning about me and my culture and I was interested in learning about them in their culture.

Yesterday I posted something on the Tinder sub, and it was absolutely destroyed by women because they can’t recognize their own double standards.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/kFXtWt6EaL (here’s the post). Whether you agree with me posting that or not as another thing. I still stand by what I said.

With all that said, and my past few years, having good experiences with women from other countries, I am already on my way to Argentina later this year for 2 1/2 weeks. I planned this trip months ago on the sole fact I wanted a solo trip to taste food and practice Spanish.

I’ve been practicing my Spanish for the past four months aggressively. And I take two lessons a week with an Argentinian instructor.

I’m also excited to try all the food that they have down there because I hear it’s to die for and I cannot wait to visit Patagonia for a little bit.

And while it was not my main focus, I’m interested to see what kind of viable situation it would be to live outside of the US and find a partner elsewhere. I definitely can see myself moving to some country in Latin America. Once my son is an adult in a few years and he has the capability to come visit me and I visit him whenever we want.

I understand the Argentinian women are very feminist compared to other Latin American cultures, but I still think it will be something quite new and interesting for me to test.

So here I go buddies. Wish me luck.

Me and my homeboy are going to be going out the country in November for about five days. I’m trying to pick between Columbia, Dominican Republic and Brazil. Is there any more I should think about?

He is here in the States now and married to a local woman. The wedding was done at the courthouse this past Tuesday. With all the legal aspects covered, the plan now is for the rest of our family to come over next summer for a church type of ceremony.

I’m a Latino man born in the USA with Guatemalan heritage as my background. I’m 5’11 brown skin brown eyes long hair as I’m into rock and roll and that specific scene. I’m also a bit chubby but I still manage to pick up women in Los Angeles.

The problem with the women I pick up is that I pick up Latina women which I like but I prefer white women also European white which I love. I’ve been with two white women one redhead and one brunette and for me there’s nothing like it.

I don’t think it’s fetishy or anything it’s just my preference.

So with all that being said, I’m a recently single man and I’m really not looking into getting in any relationship in America for now. I’m 40yrs old make a decent living and I like to travel. Never been to Europe but I’ve heard good things.

I would primarily love to travel to meet new women abroad. So which countries should I go to for a Latino man like myself that wants to meet blonde blue eyed/ redhead green eyed women?

For some reason I feel like I would be exotic in certain countries and I might be in a spot where I could clean up. If I sound too confident maybe that’s a good thing. Don’t mean to be too arrogant.

TLDR: Guatemalan man wants to meet blonde/redhead women in Europe where should I go?

Ill be 46  on  July 10  I objectively look 35 to 40 due to early anti-aging protocols such as botox, trention,  moisturizing and in mid 40s stacking collagen producing modalities such as RF microneedling and coolpeels ( light laser resurfacing) no hair loss due to propecia ..  I exercise regularly im not jacked but I would say reasonably fit .

In late teens up to 30 had 2 long term relationships w American women 5 and 6 years ..   turned down another American woman in early 30s once I eyed overseas

Had a 2 year relationship w filipino woman brought her to states left her after a year being here ..  met a girl in thailand brought here over here been together 13 years

   Last 2 years  ive been back and forth w her  bc of me

   also in last 2 years ive been criss crossing thailand,  Philippines and India

Met many different types of girls from escorts too normal and very conservative

I went on this run bc of a health scare and the thai woman has honestly been as dramatic as American women can be i think she has BPD but obviously I'm not the beacon of mental health myself but I will say she is loyal as can be but she has caused so many problems I would have to make a separate post .

I know it sounds like im not the best at maintaining relationships which is true to an extent but I have gravitated towards toxic high drama women except the Filipino i was with actually was so nice and drama free it was  foreign to me ..  which in retrospect was a real good thing

So now in the last 2 years I went through a handful of women

Im currently talking to 2 one is 37 and other is 28 .. both from Philippines

The 28 is super conversative  I met her spent 3 days with her were still chatting even though I broke things off

The 37 year old I just start chatting but we'll see what happens .   Idk just seems like im in a loop ..  ive spent alot of time in thailand and Philippines..  it would be hard to adjust especially in Philippines

Even cebu ..   gyms dont compare , food sucks ..     I would need to rent a place somewhere i guess I could overcome it over time but definitely an adjustment period would have to take place .. 

I suppose this might be a midlife crisis ive heard so much about ..  

Financially im good . I have about 1.1 million in investments and have 3 businesses in florida so finances aren't really an issue . I dont have any male friends anymore as I more introverted and

  And had 4 kids ...so I was focused on them and business for a long time ..  and my friends moved , or slowly faded

Im not really asking for advice but just wanted to share my story and see what others viewpoints are ..   

Thanks

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Social media platforms like Instagram have inflated women's ego and self-perception to an extreme degree. They no longer find men with average looks attractive; instead, they seek relationships only with men they perceive as superior and more attractive. funny thing is its a mindset that has resulted in a large number of leftover women and low birth rates.

I took particular note of this interview. These Chinese and Singaporean women state that they find no appeal in the normal asian face.

This creates a strong demand for exotic men from abroad. The simple fact is that an average-looking Western man is worshipped in China, Singapore, and South Korea simply because he falls outside the mold of the "normal Asian face."

Ultimately, it is lookism that has fueled the PPB trend.

I am asking because I have seen passport bros describe their ideal woman and it seems like they love Asian girls who are skinny 99% of the time as their genes and their culture has normalized a slim body... curious to know if PPBs are into chubby African women who most likely have the same personality as Asian women when it comes to being traditional/submissive

I have now dated East, South, and Southeast Asian girls, women from India, Vietnam, Indonesia, China, and South Korea. There is an incredible amount of diversity among them all, it is impossible to generalize hundreds of millions of women, of course. Yet, there is one common denominator among them that I tend to find again and again, and it is that these women from these countries all have a profound level of insecurity related to their ethnicity or race, and all have varying degrees of self-hate. I won't go into detail of how it came to be, some will argue it is a leftover from colonialism, others will say it is the consequences of +5h daily TikTok use that is the average among young women everywhere nowadays, ensuring constant self-comparison with the likes of Sabrina Carpenter and Sydney Sweeney.

How this insecurity manifests itself is of course very different from person to person. But after spending time and getting to know thousands of women from the aforementioned countries, it became clear to me that they had a very hierarchical view of the world and race, where those with European looks were at the top, and they themselves were below them. I never understood this. I found their natural tan skin to be very attractive and a sign of vitality, and I always thought these girls would look even more attractive if they were spending more time in the sun and getting sun kissed. But in all of Asia, from India to Japan, this is heavily frowned upon among women, where the beauty standard is being as White as possible. I thought it was ridiculous for my dates to have a sun umbrella when it was cloudy and a UV index of 5-6, but they considered it close to a social death sentence to get any colour.

I also grew tired of their constant self-loathing comments, like how all of them, completely unprompted, would tell me how they thought their own nose was so ugly deformed and that my nose was so perfect. Southeast Asian women would tell me how they wish they had a more prominent nose bridge like I have, and East Asian women would tell how they wish they had a smaller nose like me.

There is nothing more exhausting than to be with someone who hates themselves and wish they looked different, and this seems to be the case for the majority of these women. I have never experiences this dating fellow Scandinavians.

On a side note, I also became disgusted at how the wealthier women in these countries would treat their fellow countrymen with such disdain, just from being middle or working class. The social strata is more prominent over there, but in my opinion, this nastiness was also a mirror of how they saw themselves and their countrymen.

I've been to the Philippines a few times but this year I'm going with the intention of finding a wife. Most of my visits were spent in cebu but Ive noticed a shift in the major cities where the girls are starting to get hip to the game so to speak.

So, I think this time Id like to head further inland not necessarily on Cebu island but any island further into the provinces.

Does anyone have any advice on certain provinces and how to navigate and meet single girls as I'm sure technology/apps would be a challenge in these areas? While also narrowing that down to Christian Pinays only. I know the Philippines is mostly catholic but not all.

I've considered maybe hiring a guide for the provinces while I'm there. What say you?

TLDR: Used a fake bank account for dating in SEA, people say I could get abducted, wondering if anyone have experience/ advice.

I'm a young nomad travelling around SEA, and a lot of the women i've met were very materialistic.

So I started using a fake banking app where you can edit the balance. I made it look like I had a few hundred grand (nothing too crazy). And it honestly works and improved my chances of 2nd, 3rd dates etc...

But I mentioned it to a few people and they said I'm a fucking idiot because if the wrong person thinks I actually have that kind of money I could get robbed, drugged, or even kidnapped.

I've been doing this for months and now I'm lowkey paranoid lol.

Am I overthinking this or is this actually dangerous?

My friend and I (25M & 26M) are planning our first trip to Cape Verde after seeing all the recent attention it’s been getting, and we’d rather hear from people who actually know the islands than rely on travel blogs.

We’re looking for the island that best fits what we’re after. Our priorities are:

1. Nightlife with a good atmosphere
2. Meeting people/locals and other travelers
3. Great beaches
4. Nature/ water related, not big hikers

We’re not expecting some wild party destination like Medellín, and we’re happy to respect the local culture if people are generally more reserved. We just don’t want to spend a few thousand dollars only to realize we picked the quietest island when another would’ve been a much better fit.

A little background: I’m pretty new to traveling. Up until now, I’ve only been to Cancún because it was my first international trip, I went solo, and it felt like an easy place to get my feet wet. It did exactly that—it gave me the confidence to start exploring more of the world.

Now I’m trying to move away from the obvious tourist destinations. I’d rather travel because a place has its own culture, people, music, and identity than because it’s the trendy destination everyone on social media is flying to. I’m much more interested in being a respectful traveler than fitting into the whole “passport bro” stereotype.

For context, I’m Nigerian/Jamaican and my friend is Honduran/Black, if that makes any difference to your recommendations or experiences.
If you had to recommend one or two islands—or even specific towns—for guys in our mid-20s looking for a fun, social vacation, where would you send us, and why?

I’d really appreciate any honest advice. If there’s somewhere that fits what we’re looking for better than the places most tourists end up, I’d love to hear about it. I’d much rather learn from people who know Cape Verde than blindly follow the same itinerary everyone else does.

Hi, I might travel in Asia for a month in 3 weeks, do you have any recommendations ? Looking mainly for a chill city to rest, without that much rain (the heat doesn't bother me) and where you can easily meet women. I was thinking about Central Vietnam (Da Nang)

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There are many Israeli women who date foreign men. I’ve heard they enjoy cooking and dream of marriage, engagement rings, and so on. There is also a strong influence of Eastern culture there. Does anyone have any information they’d like to share?