u/This_Wrangler_166

Not sure guys but there's lot of quantity, but I'd say quality is not very abundant. Not only the physic, but big tattoos seem extremely common in 20-40 years old women, same as brain rot or obesity.

I guess if you have not many options is ok to try in th Ph. But to find a beautiful Filipina (who is also decent, not crazy and somewhat educatded) needs time and work, and I don't think they are so common. When I say "beautiful" means beautiful in Europe/Usa standards, not average. I know some guys here have beautiful Filipina girlfriends, and good for you.

As an example a 7 from America, Latin America or Usa would really stand out here.

I would say actually in Thailand, Japan or Korea you have more chances to date a beautiful woman, as they have many more.

Just my opinion.

The mind tells it will get better.

But truth is, if the situation has been like that for years, it will only get worse. Older, people die, some friends may leave, health issues...

And the older are, less chances to find a potential partner.

At least, ironically, you are not alone. Millions are lonely, just that they are isolated, only connected by social media.

It's like the new Sodoma. Have been here only a few days and I haven't seen another place where you feel all is about money, about showing off, about materialism, even sex.

Many people seem with an attitude. Some don't seem to care about other persons, it's just all about the money.

Women seem unpolite, uneducated and extremely materialsts. Do they behave like this after being here for long or the city attracts these people?

Men seem dumb and materialists too. With money but with lack of class or modesty.

It's all about who looks richer. You need to look like you have money here. I wonder how many of these are broke.

You see men with jackets in photo sessions and women with what seems expensive dresses. Some women are beautiful but they don't seem like wife material. Something tells me tu run fast.

I also feel my brain getting rotten. It's like a superficial place. You breath something that makes you dumber, materialist and psycho.

Sometimes you see the typical Russian girl with an arab. Many models in the mall or some restaurant. Frequently with flowers which some simp paid.

This is one of the shady tactics Bumble do.

I wasn't having many matches a few weeks ago. Then in one day, a few hours before my paid subscription expired, I got dozens of likes in a few hours. It was something unusual and also likes from attractive profiles. So I think the algorithm showed my profile massively. I paid and next day it was the same level of likes.

And surely they do more of these shady things with the algorithm.

Now men can start conversations and women have 72 hours to answer. Why?

Because dating apps are having less and less interactions. Less people starting conversations, less people replying, if someone replyes the conversation is usually short and poor. People are burned out. You can see this in options some apps added to start conversations with ai.

You can expect maybe 1 date out of 200 matches. There are statistics about this.

Dating apps companies know and their are stuck. The swiping method is the real problem here. It converts the experience in an addiction and creates the sense of abundance, when it causes real connections impossible to make. If you are having a conversation but you or the other person keeps swiping, it's impossible to connect.

So dating apps users become hamsters in the wheel. Some know and use them properly but most can't.

Same as there's the death internet theory, this is the death of dating apps. They are essentially cemeteries. People just swipe, but most people don't interact and very rarely you get some good match.

I mean in these countries a +30 years old woman is considered left over. Maybe not that much nowadays, but it's still a thing in China, Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia, Indonesia.

Some of them are still good looking when +30, but specially near 35, if you want to have kids, it's somewhat risky.

I wonder what's the opinion of the bros.

People will cope, but brutal truth is that for different reasons some countries have more beautiful people. For example, because of high standards and competition women in South Korea take care of themselves a lot. Sweden, Iceland, Norway or Ukraine have a very high rate of attractive women.

People in other countries can be highly inbred, have a bad diet or bad lifestyle that leads to obesity.

For me the most attractive in Asia are in Thailand and South Korea.

Most unattractive are in Indonesia.

Or maybe less and I don't think my standards are crazy. If I go other country it could be 5 times more.

Thing is that there's lot of obesity, lot of women with tattoos, trans, women with inappropriate photos, etc. Then some women answer with things like hbu or shit like that.

Is not that good as they say. And yeah I also get hundreds of likes if I set almost no filters.

It seems this is a growing trend in the West.

I myself have seen it. Generally a slightly older woman with high education works. The man, younger, with lower education is unemployed and stays at home.

This is sustainable because the man is somewhat attractive but can't attract young women, as he doesn't have income. The older woman can't attract men with good income. So the poor somewhat attractive man goes with the older woman with good income.

Inevitably this trend will grow, as we are seeing how men are less educated, meanwhile the proportion of women in University is growing.

Many of you won't believe this, but it's already happening in Western countries and China, were there are many highly educated professional +30 women.

Is this possible in a Ppbro country? Have you seen this? I think it is possible if you are very good looking and don't care to match with an older woman. And I mean an age gap of +7, sometimes +10.

Seems very frequent that any woman above 28-30 who looks good, have kids. In Thailand, Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia. Is like men have the urgency to pass their genes to them and run.

Probably a thing of infidelity and lack of compatibility. And men running of course, sometimes because they don't want the responsibility, sometimes because the woman is truly abusive.

Wasn't so frequently years ago. Nowadays you see many divorced women below 35 with 1-10 years old kids.

Did you observe this?

I wonder if there's an age for men/women where there's a high chance, maybe +70%, that if you don't meet someone you'll die alone. Also I guess it depends on your income, mental health state and physical appearance.

I would say 35 for women and 40 for men? Both average people in income and appearance.

But in general, as you get older, you have less people of the other sex to meet. Some are already married, others have baggage, kids, awful traumas, others didn't take care of themselves and don't look good. And you also look worse.

On the other hand, older women have higher bodycounts, which make them less attractive and increase chances of unsuccessful relationship. Same with men.

So it's like many causes that makes it more and more difficult to find someone.

You have a break up and may think that now you have experience, it's a positive thing. But if the break-up it's after certain age, you may be swimming against a strong current. Besides, you are less flexible, you have your job, car, routines, maybe pets. You can't change easily.

So one day is the end. It marks the day where you can't match and then the Universe knows you'll die alone. But you keep having hope that you'll meet someone and be happy.

We have maybe 3-4 chances in life to meet someone to spend long time in life and create something. If you miss it's over.

Have been working for 15 years, made lot of money, now I'm retired.

My ex was disloyal and I brokeup. She never knew my wealth. I told her when after her lies and she got furious.

She was from a Ppbro country. Seemed a traditional women, but she was not. I learned these girls also manipulate and abuse men.

I have tried different ppbros countries but I don't find wife material. Might not be a good option to get married anymore? There's too much risk if I get married or have kids.

The West with 50% divorce rate is scary. My net worth is around 15 million and it keeps growing.

Meanwhile I can have a good life with no dramas, paying for sex or having a "house keeper". No risk, peace. This is the best option seeing my situation. So dating is over.

Are there bros in similar situation?

Girls you are welcome to send me a private message.

Have you seen these women?

I see them more and more, while they were none existent years ago. I mean it was very rare to see a Filipina who traveled many countries. Almost always above average Filipinas, not an Ukrainian model, but quite attractive.

Besides traveling, second thing in common is wanting to settle down, usually, for some reason, at 30 or 31. They come back to the Phillippines at 30 and start searching.

Have you seen these cases? How do they travel so many places, sometimes Europe expensive places or Australia? Is it all because of a boyfriend or sugar daddies or sometimes they can have a job?

Would you consider them as serious partner/wife material?

International matchmaking, it can often be said, and in my personal opinion, is a scam for many guys. Only a small percentage of men succeed. Are you among them? My only suggestion is that you remain humble in this particular situation.

I read a user asking about a matchmaking service in a certain country, and I think this will be very valuable for men. There's hardly any information about it online. But someone has to tell the truth. These agencies publish fake reviews and do everything they can to remove, sometimes through legal means, real negative customer reviews.

I've seen some really awful things. Please understand that I have no interest in lying. I gain NOTHING from this post. I only intend to help and contribute to the international community, particularly men, who are the ones being abused in this situation.

The general process is:

- There are usually two profiles: 1- A busy man with no time for dates. He may or may not be attractive. 2- A desperate man, generally unattractive, who doesn't have success in dating, wether dating apps o real life dating. He goes to a matchmaking website and sees photos of very attractive women. He reads that they have an 80% or 90% success rate. These are lies. They make up these figures themselves; there's no audit that measures that success rate. You have to be aware of something: if you have little success on a dating app, why would you be successful in a matchmaking agency?

They must be men with middle or high incomes. Something important: some matchmaking services charge less attractive men more money. At the beginning of the process (when you contact them), they ask for photos, yout job and other things. Then they give you a price.

- The man contacts the matchmaking service. There's a sales pitch. They tell the man what he wants to hear: "We have a woman who would be a great match for you, and she's very beautiful." "You're young and handsome, our girls will want to meet you."

-The man pays and BOOM! Reality hits. A brutal crash against the wall of reality. The matchmaking agency takes forever to send the girls' profiles. And they're much, much less attractive than they showed on the website or during the sales process. Often women aren't interested. Sometimes it seems like they're there against their will.

-These matchmaking agencies often post photos of attractive women on their websites. Often, these women are already in relationships or not genuinely interested. They want you to take the bait.

-Price: from $3,000 for some months to over $100,000. The biggest problem: they don't commit. If you pay, say, $15,000 to be introduced to a decent woman to marry and spend a large part of your life with, for many it's worth it. But these agencies don't commit. If the agency is truly committed until you get married or something like that, then yes, it's honest.

-These agencies often fabricate reviews. They buy or invent reviews on Google Maps or Trustpilot.com.

-These matchmaking agencies often pay actresses to go on dates with clients or talk to them on video calls.

-If you're going to hire an agency, research their process for verifying information about the woman they're presenting to you. You can find the photo of the woman online using paid platforms. I won't name them, but there are several. This is ESSENTIAL. They can literally introduce you prostitutes or married women.

I witnessed a truly awful experience one day at a matchmaking agency in Vietnam; perhaps I'll detail it in another post. A friend went to Vietnam with a matchmaking agency. They introduced him to several women. He discovered that some of these women were bar girls. My friend chose a woman he considered more decent—young, pretty, and pleasant. A few days later, my friend was contacted by someone from an anonymous number. It was the HUSBAND of the woman he had chosen; he was out of Vietnam. In other words, he had been introduced to a married woman. This man told my friend that she was his wife: he had married her in Vietnam, and on their wedding night, he discovered she already had a child. He showed my friend photos from the wedding. This woman was trying to jump ship to a better candidate, even though she was married. I can't give more details, but that's what happened, and worse things happen.

But I know of many other very, very sad cases. Sometimes men have had so little appreciation in their lives and have been so lonely that they seem to enjoy being deceived.

Although this last, most destructive incident occurred in Vietnam, everything else related to matchmaking agencies happens all over the world.

Be careful, bros. I hope this helps. In my opinion, many of these agencies lie, or most of them, and they literally scam people. They drain your time, money, and dreams.

International matchmaking, it can often be said, and in my personal opinion, is a scam for many guys. Only a small percentage of men succeed. Are you among them? My only suggestion is that you remain humble in this particular situation.

I read a user asking about a matchmaking service in a certain country, and I think this will be very valuable for men. There's hardly any information about it online. But someone has to tell the truth. These agencies publish fake reviews and do everything they can to remove, sometimes through legal means, real negative customer reviews.

I've seen some really awful things. Please understand that I have no interest in lying. I gain NOTHING from this post. I only intend to help and contribute to the international community, particularly men, who are the ones being abused in this situation.

The general process is:

- There are usually two profiles: 1- A busy man with no time for dates. He may or may not be attractive. 2- A desperate man, generally unattractive, who doesn't have success in dating, wether dating apps o real life dating. He goes to a matchmaking website and sees photos of very attractive women. He reads that they have an 80% or 90% success rate. These are lies. They make up these figures themselves; there's no audit that measures that success rate. You have to be aware of something: if you have little success on a dating app, why would you be successful in a matchmaking agency?

They must be men with middle or high incomes. Something important: some matchmaking services charge less attractive men more money. At the beginning of the process (when you contact them), they ask for photos, yout job and other things. Then they give you a price.

- The man contacts the matchmaking service. There's a sales pitch. They tell the man what he wants to hear: "We have a woman who would be a great match for you, and she's very beautiful." "You're young and handsome, our girls will want to meet you."

-The man pays and BOOM! Reality hits. A brutal crash against the wall of reality. The matchmaking agency takes forever to send the girls' profiles. And they're much, much less attractive than they showed on the website or during the sales process. Often women aren't interested. Sometimes it seems like they're there against their will.

-These matchmaking agencies often post photos of attractive women on their websites. Often, these women are already in relationships or not genuinely interested. They want you to take the bait.

-Price: from $3,000 for some months to over $100,000. The biggest problem: they don't commit. If you pay, say, $15,000 to be introduced to a decent woman to marry and spend a large part of your life with, for many it's worth it. But these agencies don't commit. If the agency is truly committed until you get married or something like that, then yes, it's honest.

-These agencies often fabricate reviews. They buy or invent reviews on Google Maps or Trustpilot.com.

-These matchmaking agencies often pay actresses to go on dates with clients or talk to them on video calls.

-If you're going to hire an agency, research their process for verifying information about the woman they're presenting to you. You can find the photo of the woman online using paid platforms. I won't name them, but there are several. This is ESSENTIAL. They can literally introduce you prostitutes or married women.

I witnessed a truly awful experience one day at a matchmaking agency in Vietnam; perhaps I'll detail it in another post. A friend went to Vietnam with a matchmaking agency. They introduced him to several women. He discovered that some of these women were bar girls. My friend chose a woman he considered more decent—young, pretty, and pleasant. A few days later, my friend was contacted by someone from an anonymous number. It was the HUSBAND of the woman he had chosen; he was out of Vietnam. In other words, he had been introduced to a married woman. This man told my friend that she was his wife: he had married her in Vietnam, and on their wedding night, he discovered she already had a child. He showed my friend photos from the wedding. This woman was trying to jump ship to a better candidate, even though she was married. I can't give more details, but that's what happened, and worse things happen.

But I know of many other very, very sad cases. Sometimes men have had so little appreciation in their lives and have been so lonely that they seem to enjoy being deceived.

Although this last, most destructive incident occurred in Vietnam, everything else related to matchmaking agencies happens all over the world.

Be careful, bros. I hope this helps. In my opinion, many of these agencies lie, or most of them, and they literally scam people. They drain your time, money, and dreams.

Seriously the housing or hotels pricing and quality is TERRIBLE. For a cheaper price you get something much much much better in near countries.

You are paying 4 star prices for massively shitty places in Airbnb. If you pay an "affordable" price then the place is so so shitty that is like a jail. Also the service is awful sometimes. If I pay this price I expect at least to be treated kindly. I'm talking about places that you don't even want to enter, places that make you deeply depressed.

If you go to a 4-5 stars hotel? It's a big shitty really small room with almost nothing. Perfect to end up crazy or depressed. Yes, there are exceptions, there are good hotels. But the offer is small and often the only good ones are fully booked.

Now you go to other countries with the same budget and you get much better quality. You'll be much more confortable, you'll enjoy more your time, and will have a better diet. I'm talking about a super big difference. Like a 4-5 stars hotel compared to a dark smelly hostel.

Maybe if women were top quality, wife material and it didn't took so long to find a good woman, I would go the Phillippines. But then you have issues with women hiding their sons, lies of all kind, etc.

I was in 2017. Have been recently again and it almost didn't improve anything. Just some business districts and still not something surprising.

Turns out a woman in his early 30s is very interested in me. From a passport bro country.

She is hot, I would say a 7, but wants kids fast, in next years.

However, her ex is another Ppbro.

Would this be an issue for you? In case you'd reject her because she's been with another Ppbro, why?

Thailand is not what it used to be. Thai women earn as much as, or even more than, many passportbros. They don't need men. Actually, they have a better education than the average men.

Thailand has one of the lowest birth rates in the world. This speaks volumes. Low birth rates mean fewer relationships and less sex. Furthermore, this indicates that Thailand will never be the same again, because each year there will be fewer Thais.

There's a prototype of the modern Thai woman who doesn't need a man, much less a passportbro, and who isn't even interested in starting a family or having children. Like a girl boss, but in a more feminine Thai style, not as masculinized as in the West. They often have exotic pets, cats or dogs. Although this is already happening in Vietnam or the Philippines.

There's a general feeling of negativity in the country regarding the economy and society.

In Bangkok, 50% or more of the population is single. They're living the rat race on steroids, constantly busy.

It's one of the countries with the highest rates of infidelity in the world.

The average age is 42, so there are fewer young women to meet.

You'll often hear that a man is incredibly successful there, but you should ask yourself if he paid for it. Prostitution is still cheap. When someone says "I have 1000 likes on Tinder in Thailand", they are often women aged 18 to +50, and perhaps 90% of them would not be a match. Don't belive anything unless you see it.

You'll see videos of people with Thai girls partying. Often, or almost always, they are prostitutes.

Thai women don't need men, much less a passport guy who doesn't offer much. Maybe they would if the guy were very attractive and rich.

It's also worth mentioning that there's a general feeling of weariness with foreigners.

In any case, I'm going to spend a few weeks in Thailand. In a tourist area where there are many OnlyFans women, especially Russian ones. I don't intend to waste time on dating apps, but it's low season in the country and there are some cheap opportunities.

I've been reading comments saying that it's easier because the abundance of professional women. That you can easily find average or ugly dudes with beautiful women. Wonder if that's true or just casual observations from this bros.