I’ve visited, Barcelona, Paris, Amsterdam, Frankfurt and berlin in the last month. Conclousin? USA is better than Europe.
I’m of african origine, lived in france for the last 10 years and lived in the USA between 2024 to june 2026.
I’m black, 5’11, 190 pounds muscular, bald head (the best bald head in town 😁) full beard.
I used to go out in NYC in bushwick, brooklyn and manhattan rooftops, it was normal for a girl to come up to me and dance and talk and go on dates afterwards, i could get 3 girls to twerk on me in one night thats was normal in NYC.
In my recent trip to europe i get a lot of attention in the club too but it’s hard to talk to them, most of the time they are nervous and scarred, although they are the ones that came to my zone intentionally and sometimes even push their ass on me, also me being black in clubs with very few black can have an impact as some women are attracted but affraid of what the other white people will think of them if she started to dance with me ettc.
If you are white in europe i think sometimes is even harder because in barcelona the amount of good looking white people is ridiculus, we talking italian with perfect 20/10 hair spanish ettc i was happy that i stood out by my masculinity rather than prettiness.
Now in Berlin and went on a date yesterday and have some more lined up but the USA was far easier honestly.
During this journey i’ve met a lot of american dudes, normally they should do better than me because they have the american status but let me tell you a lot of duddes are absloutley afraid of talking to a women even when she gives them dead signals,
A lot of american men are traumatised by women i noticed that in USA and abroad, aftaid to talk to girls, afriad to dance afriad to express themselves they just wanna look pretty and have their drink in hand and expect something to happened that is riddiculus and sad.