This happened last saturday. Weve been together for 3 years. As I was laying in bed I saw she was texting in the middle of the night, and took out my phone to try and see what or who she was texting. Turns out it was someone she was cheating on me with.
For the last few months weve been in a bad place. Little to no sex, bickering, and just feeling like were not going in a good direction. She even cancelled her wedding dress shopping so we could figure out our relationship and not feel the pressure of the wedding. Looking back that was a huge red flag.
For the last few weekends she suggested she go home (we live together and her family is from another state) and stay witha friend so we could have a little space. I thought that was a good idea. She made up a story about her friend got home from college and her parents just got a new house so they invited her to stay.
I looked up the address the night the photo was taken and it comes back to the name of this same guy in the photo I attached. Absolutely devastated. I confronted her that night and left. I stayed with a friend up all night and was so absolutely heartbroken. I still am.
Luckily im getting settled into a new apartment, currently staying with my brother. And everyone is very supportive of me. Im so broken, I got betrayed by the woman I loved. She was a totally different person than who I thought and I dont know how to move on from that.