u/Gloomy-Rule-1854

Just lost virginity as 19m and what to feel comfortable in myself and explore my sexuality

Hey so I’m not 100% sure if this is the write subreddit for this post but anyway I really want other peoples opinions so I can get a bit of a perspective.

For context I have ASD and general anxiety disorder so I’ve found it really hard to feel loved and attractive I’m contemplating meeting with a counseler through work but I want to build myself confidence so I can feel more comfortable in my own skin.

So I 19m turning 20 in a month just lost my virginity im a very anxious person and am on prescribed medication for anxiety so sex was always something that made me very scared so the opportunities that came up for me to be intimate previously never came into fruition because I’d always back out last minute.

Anyway because I’ve now ‘climbed the mountain’ I no longer feel anxious about potentially being intimate with a person and feel like I need to explore a bit more because I’m now not as anxious at the thought of sex.

Allot of people I know are on dating apps like tinder that they use for casual sex/relationships and are these good outlets or not and do people have any tangible success of these apps and also are their any links on what photos to post of yourself on tinder because I don’t have many pictures of myself and the ones I do have I’m unsure if I should use them.

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u/Gloomy-Rule-1854 — 4 hours ago