u/Gloomy_Mechanic1378

Is there a mod that lets you still perform job duties outside of work hours? Let me give you an example, I’m currently playing the pandasama mod to be a midwife and help birth babies. However, I did a house call as a Independent Birth Specialist as a level 5 in the career rank. This patient wanted to do a water birth but time was more quicker than the time it takes for your patient to dilate. So I knew the house after work I went there and wanted to complete the scenario, she was in labor but I didn’t have the controls to do so outside of work hours. So I hope there’s a way the story can continue on smoothly and I’ll be able to go there when my shift ends and finish the job. That’s all 🥹

My parents decided to side with my abuser. I (28F) was sexually assaulted 4 times ever in my life. The age where I was more aware (15) and able to tell my parents, they told me to lock my door and keep quiet. It was my cousin’s husband, he was 27 at the time. He sexually assaulted me by touching and attempting to handle other parts of my body when I was asleep. Mind you, my cousin and her husband still ask support from my parents and currently is a roommate of theirs in my parents house. I reminded them what they did to me, and yet they are telling me to do the same thing, forgive him and the saying “well he didn’t rape you”. After so many years, I thought their view would change and they would do the right thing and fight for me or at the very least kick them out. My mom fought with me and taunted me to tell my cousin (51F) to “ruin the whole world”. I still didn’t tell her, until I told my dad and he told me to stop talking about it and leave it alone. That was my breaking point where I lost it, and messaged her on Facebook (she is currently in the Philippines for vacation). My cousin freaks out and says I’m delusional and I’m a liar and why didn’t I tell my parents. I did reiterate that I did and she continued to gas light me. While this was happening, my whole family was having this argument, my abuser came in questioning why am I sending his wife (my cousin) lies. Instead of my parents backing me up, they let him say whatever he wanted and proceed to say they don’t believe that he would do that to me. So of course this guy proceeds to ask my parents for more help. And til this day, my parents haven’t apologized or reached out but they’ve been helping him and my cousin find a place because of the tension. Am I the fucked up one? At this point I believe my parents don’t care about me. They also are not accepting of my almost 10 year relationship with my fiancé who is trans. And they use that as a reason they can’t defend me from this abuser. Am I the asshole for cutting them off of my life? I literally care about how they feel that’s why I’ve been holding off marrying the love of my life.

**1st Edit**

In addition to this post:

my sister updated and confirmed that said parents are blaming me being with my partner as a reason they don’t care or will not defend me from this abuser.