u/GloryBeToYeshua

▲ 18 r/sex

How do I make my girlfriend’s time worth it?

After a few months of dating, my girlfriend (20F) and I (20M) have finally had sex. We’re both not really good at it and have only done it twice, but both times she hasn’t cum at all.

I’m not too experienced, I was sexually active in a prior relationship where I was abused and had to overcome that trauma, I’m doing way better now though. For her, she was a virgin and wanted to have sex (I found it very touching).

The first time she really didn’t enjoy it physically as it was her first time and I feel kinda guilty for barely giving her pleasure. I didn’t last too long so that was the main issue.

The second time she enjoyed it way more but didn’t cum, and I still feel guilty about that.

I know it comes with time, but what are some things that will make her experience way better because I don’t want her to not gain pleasure from intimacy?

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u/GloryBeToYeshua — 12 days ago