u/Glum-Foundation-2267

my dad has always been my favorite. he’s way more fun and accepting than my mom. they have a 20 year age gap. shes 35, he’s 55. I just realized that since his birthday is in july and hers is in October; he was 40 before she was 20. they met at 19 and 39. he was training her at their job. Im devastated realizing how fucking gross this is, especially as a victim myself. I don’t know what in the world to do. I can’t talk to him now without being disgusted. I don’t know if I should just stay in my room all day avoiding him or what.

Please tell me if this is the wrong sub. I’m new to Reddit.

Im failing as a home school student. I’m turning 14 this July, so I’m heading into High-school. with more advanced learning coming up, I fear that I might fail. additionally, june is summer break. which is in a month. I am 2 books behind on science and language, 5 books behind on history, and I am still in 7th grade math. I cannot retain any information. I think this is because I don’t study, but I was never taught how exactly TO study. I also have problems reading. The program I use often has an abundance of spelling errors and sentences that are clunky. I also get occasionally lost in words and they seem to draw a blank in my mind. I don’t want to spend my entire summer retaking math and finishing up extra books. I know I’ll have to do math, since I haven’t even started 8th grade math, but I really fret the idea of also doing my same school over the summer too. I wouldn’t even be getting ahead, Id just be burnt out and on time with everybody else. please, any suggestion, tips, or advic? I really need it. :(

Please tell me if this is the wrong sub. I’m new to Reddit.

Im failing as a home school student. I’m turning 14 this July, so I’m heading into High-school. with more advanced learning coming up, I fear that I might fail. additionally, june is summer break. which is in a month. I am 2 books behind on science and language, 5 books behind on history, and I am still in 7th grade math. I cannot retain any information. I think this is because I don’t study, but I was never taught how exactly TO study. I also have problems reading. The program I use often has an abundance of spelling errors and sentences that are clunky. I also get occasionally lost in words and they seem to draw a blank in my mind. I don’t want to spend my entire summer retaking math and finishing up extra books. I know I’ll have to do math, since I haven’t even started 8th grade math, but I really fret the idea of also doing my same school over the summer too. I wouldn’t even be getting ahead, Id just be burnt out and on time with everybody else. please, any suggestion, tips, or advic? I really need it. :(