u/Glum-Measurement894

I’m a happily married man who, as my testosterone levels have dipped, more frequently want to receive, with a prostate massage or, oh please, with pegging. I have talked about this with my wife and used different approaches: romantic, I want to feel you inside me the way you feel me inside you; psychological, most lovers, men and women, want the thrill of collapsing the space between them and their partners through penetration; and pure sexual: I just want to be fucked sometimes. But she can’t get over the ick factor, and I think my bi side just freaks her out. Her compromise is for me to do my own insertion, of a toy, as I top her, but this pretty much misses the point. Does anybody have any suggestions for getting through?