Genuinely curious about the asexual space
No offence to anyone here I’m genuinely just curious and want to learn without being attacked. Asexuality is most certainly a spectrum and everyone’s own unique experience is valid. However, why is it here, in the asexual forum, that sex positivity is talked about constantly. Now let me clarify there is nothing wrong with discussing it and having neutral genuinely insightful conversations but talking about explicit sex, nsfw, smut and how turned on you are, (or even just the distasteful memes I’ve been seeing) when you are on an asexual space (without it being something to discuss or learn from I.e. why am I feeling this way, venting etc.) is so ironic, odd, and a bit tone deaf. That’s what the specific greysexual space is for. Asexual people come together to have a space where they can have a community and feel comfort in an otherwise difficult world but when people are sort of ‘hijacking’ their space, it’s understandable why they’d feel upset. I think it’s even more unfortunate that when more repulsed aces express this and are immediately pushed out of their own space. Why can’t people just talk and work things out :(