I (15F) just met, was friends, and flirted with a (15M) and now he doesn't wanna be friends??
So about three weeks ago I had received an email from this guy in a couple of my classes, I will be calling him 'S'. I had never really talked to him before and he was friends with a couple of my other guyfriends. He had somehow gotten my number from one of them and we started talking. It wasn't anything big but we talked. We both had this friend that moved away and kinda ghosted everyone from the group, so we sorta bonded from shared trauma I could say? Soon he would casually flirt, like asking questions about my interests, pick-up lines, asking to attend his shows (he was in the school band), etc. I thought it was nice to finally have an actual guy into me, so I started to friendly flirt. It wasn't too long (literally three days) before all of our friends started shipping us. Calling us cute, ship names, asking when we would get married, the two of us actually looked very cute (not bias) and our personalities totally clashes perfect.
Then about a week ago we started ignoring messages, he had a huge performance coming up so I thought he was just busy. He had lots of friends but never really talked/hung out with people after school. So when I asked to go to an event with him he said he was busy, even though he never does anything. Even in the groupchat he barely responded, which is why I thought he was busy. But he was online 90% of the time. He even started avoiding me at school too. (By the way he even kinda asked me out like twice but I said I needed to get to know him more) But randomly while we were talking he said this, "I genuinely cannot handle how ya react to stuff!" It was so rude and out of context! He kept saying more weird things such as the following "It was nice just not my thing", :"We just dont mix", "I have a hard time hanging with ya, And it aint enjoyable!". He did apologize but it felt very forced and out of context. Even my friends who introduced us said that I was "overreacting" because I wanted to know why he didn't want to be friends. I was never really interested in getting into a relationship though I wouldn't mind and actually want that, it still hurt by the mean things he said.
If people can tell me some theories I will gladly give more details if anyone is interested! I just wanna know why he did this, fix it, and hopefully get my friend back.