AIO for being angry at my roommate for letting a social worker in my room and for not wanting someone to watch me pee for a drug test?
My roommate got cps called on her and someone came over when I wasn't home. They told my roommate they had to see the place and my roommate let them go into my room and they saw some drug paraphernalia. They weren't even supposed to go in my room btw. I'm honestly very mad that there was a stranger poking around in my room. I looked it up and the caseworker is only required to look in her room and the common areas, not a roommates room and I didn't give permission for her to go into my room.
Since the case worker saw the drug stuff they then wanted me to do a pee test because my roommate told them how I sometimes look after her daughter for like 20 mins every now and then when she has to quickly go to the store or something. To do the pee test I would have had to go to this place and actually let someone watch me pee which is weird as fuck and I refused to do it. it's just too invasive to me.
The only other option is a follicle test, but I would have to pay for it and I also know for a fact that that one would probably show up positive. So that would be pointless and my roommate agreed on that, but she still wanted me to do the pee test.
I was told it was voluntary though and I didn't have to do it, but was also told they would record me as an unverified adult that has refused to rule out substance use. Which apparently is seen the same as a positive test because they assume me not wanting to take it means I know I will fail. That means they couldn't verify the safety of the apartment and now it's considered high risk.
For the record I know for a fact that I would pass a pee test as I haven't had anything for a couple weeks. Based on what I read on google and how much I it probably wouldn't show up on a pee test . I still don't want someone watching me pee. I also have ever done anything in the apartment.
So the caseworker told my roommate that she and her daughter could not live with me and made her sign a thing that says she or I will move out within a week and if it doesn't happen they will petition to have her daughter removed. So now my roommate has to find a new place to live which is hard because our place is pretty affordable and she's blaming me because I'm being a baby about someone watching me pee. She says its not a big deal and will only take a minute, but I think it is a big deal because its such a private thing and its a consent thing.