I(15F) don’t want my mother to dare. My parents got divorced 3 years ago it wasn’t pretty and it was super hard for me. My father was a terrible person and i wasn’t close to him from the beginning so it was not surprise she divorced him. I in-fact encouraged her.
I know i sound super selfish but I feel like i have no one and nothing except my mum. I’ve always been super close to my mum she was my hero and my best friend. I am not isolated or struggling socially quite the opposite actually but my mother has always been number 1. I love my friends and am have may relatives and people whom i’m close to but I enjoy the company of my mother the most.
Ever since she started swiping on dating apps and seeing this guy she has neglected me more. For example, we would cook on Saturdays together watch movies on weekends and have lunch or dinner together. But now, after she got together with somebody she hasn’t been able to make time for me. I wouldn’t say she was a particularly vain person but now she constantly goes for facials, manipedis, lashes and now some face procedures. She always goes out with him and lies that she’s just going out with a friend. While i understand why she doesn’t tell me directly, it still hurts.
I can’t stand going to therapy i tried it three times and it was horrible. Talking things out with my mother had been proven ineffective as she just deflects or makes empty promises. I feel like i’m in no position to complain because it’s not as if i have nooobody to turn to but it’s still painful because she was the best. The last time we ate together was on my birthday early april late march. I just hold so much resentment towards him even though he hasn’t done anything.