u/Glum_Mango_7616

Recently my friend admitted to me that she was "raped" by her ex-boyfriend (my friend and her ex-boyfriend are both teenagers 17yo and they broke up after this issue) she said he forced her to engage in a sexual activity and he didn't ask her permission or wait for her consent and just assumed she's fine with it, she said she was was too traumatized to react and he said he didn't understand until after and he apologized and he really regret it. I immediately blocked him when I knew about this and when I talked to my other friend who's really close to him expecting her to at least be mad at him she said that she realizes that he did a horrible mistake but that doesn't make him a horrible person and that the victim (our shared friend btw) is also was wrong for not reacting and communicating with him quickly, she said she's mature enough to judge people and she won't unfriend him and this isn't a serious case of SA because it didn't involve violence or threatening, and It's really bothering me.