Okay, here’s the dealio my breastie/hyster sisters. IDC ++-, I had my DMX to flat on 04/10, intramammary node+ but sentinals-, and I’m vibing/healing just fine. However, I’m BRCA2+, 37yo, and MO was like “You’re recommended to yeetus the hotel uterati and all other parts after age 40.” (Paraphrasing) 29 onco score and 12% with the pills.
So, my question is, nix the remaining lady bits BEFORE chemo & radiation? Or after? Logically this is the strongest I’ll ever be, right? I’m done having kids, I’ve got 3. My husband is fantastic and isn’t a complete idiot, other than his attempts at cooking… anyways. Choices choices, what do I choose? My care team is like “YOLO, you do you boo.”
Also, my mom was like “Nah, F them pills, F the chemo, F the hysterectomy,”…..and she died when the BC hit her lungs 8 years later. Trying to not YOLO like my mom… two of my aunts also were like “Nah, F all that business”… they are also dead.
Has anyone else just said to hell with it and removed everything back to back like I’m considering?