u/Good-Cycle5531

I’ve never had penetrative sex, although I’ve done other sexual things.

I’ve heard a lot of people say their first time was really painful and that they even bled, and it’s honestly made me nervous. I’m scared that it’ll be really painful for me too.

The thing is, I can comfortably fit three fingers when i am aroused, and sometimes even four, although I don’t put them all the way in because I get nervous.

Does that mean penetration might not be as painful for me, or is that completely different? Should I actually be worried, or am I overthinking this?

I’d really appreciate hearing other people’s experiences.

I’ve never had penetrative sex, although I’ve done other sexual things.

I’ve heard a lot of people say their first time was really painful and that they even bled, and it’s honestly made me nervous. I’m scared that it’ll be really painful for me too.

The thing is, I can comfortably fit three fingers when i am aroused, and sometimes even four, although I don’t put them all the way in because I get nervous.

Does that mean penetration might not be as painful for me, or is that completely different? Should I actually be worried, or am I overthinking this?

I’d really appreciate hearing other people’s experiences.

This is kind of embarrassing to admit, but I’ve been feeling really insecure about my vagina.

It’s darker in color, and after watching porn, I keep comparing myself because a lot of the women seem to have pink-looking vulvas. It makes me feel like mine is unattractive or “wrong.”

I’m worried that if I’m ever intimate with someone, they’ll find it unattractive or be weirded out by it. I know porn isn’t realistic, but it’s hard not to compare myself when that’s mostly what I’ve seen.