r/TwoXSex

Toys ?

Fingers ?

When you get there

Do you stop after one ,two

Keep going ?

Hi! First of all, I apologize if I'm giving you too much information, but I'm quite anxious and wanted an outside opinion. I'm 23 years old and have been using the same birth control for about 6 years. I'm very afraid of getting pregnant because of my OCD, so that's my main concern.

To begin with, I haven't had sex since November 2025. On the 13th, I had sex with a condom, and right before my period (I take the combined pill), I had some light bleeding. I suspected it might have been due to an iron infusion that my body didn't tolerate well, since the bleeding started shortly after, but I'm still not sure.

ATTENTION! Personal information:

I had sex last Friday and Saturday, the 26th and 27th. Just so you know, I started my new pack of pills on Friday.

On the 26th, I let him take off the condom, and he pulled out in time. On the 27th, I used a condom the entire time, but it got stuck (even though the base/ring was sticking out).

Now, to the point: this morning (Tuesday the 30th), I woke up and noticed the toilet paper was pink when I wiped. While I was still sitting, I noticed blood starting to drip into the toilet bowl, and when I wiped again, I saw dark red blood and what looked like a small clot. I just urinated a second time and noticed my urine was a cloudy pink color, but this time there was no blood when I wiped.

My main concern is pregnancy, but I'm also wondering if this has happened to other people.

I've experienced similar things in the past after having sex, but never with dark red blood or visible blood in my urine. Only pink when I wiped.

I can provide photos or more details. I'm just looking for advice or opinions. Has this happened to other women? Do you know what the cause is?

I apologize if this isn't the right place to ask this. I'm thinking of calling my doctor, but I'm nervous.

For context, I’ve never actually had proper penetrative sex.

The two times in my life I’ve tried to or gotten close to it, we had to stop immediately because he couldn’t go past a certain point and it would just hurt so badly.
If I had to describe it from his perspective you could say it felt like he was hitting a wall.

And now come to think of it I can’t even fit two fingers up there comfortably when I’m doing it myself, it’s painful.

Is this normal, I can’t understand what’s wrong here 🥲

Anyone else encounter this?

Just wanted to put it out there lol. If anyone can pull their clit hood all the way up, I'd recommend trying. idk if there's a proper name for it, but just imagine the penis glans and where the glans connects to the shaft, it look exactly like that (cuz technically they are the same part). How I do it is by placing my index and middle finger on both sides of my clit, push my hands into my body a little bit so that my fingers are under the ridge of the clit, and just pushing my hands up and down. Very sensitive, but very pleasurable to me. If you can tolerate high sensitivity I think it's a great technique for switching things up, or for teasing, or just for whatever honestly lolll idk what I'm talking about. Just thinking about it makes me happy 🤩😆. I have not done this technique for a long time but I's love to try again as soon as I have time and privacy.

My bf has pinhole phimosis but it doesn't cause him any problems so he is fine just leaving it as is. Does anyone else have a partner with phimosis that is content to leave it alone?

I had done unprotected sex prior to periods, during periods and post periods also, After 2 weeks of unprotected sex, I am feeling like vomiting(something like nausea), I still have days for my periods but I am worried if I am pregnant.

What to do now? How to prevent it? And If I got pregnant what option do I have?

I realize it's possible and not everyone can do it but I guess it's it worth trying to have one? I guess I'm asking outside of knowing you can is it a more intense orgasm? I'm just trying to figure out if I should try to learn

i have posted this on a different subreddit!

hi i am just asking for advice/tips on how to take a bigger than average penis. so i have been with guys in a relationship that have been about 5 inches to maybe 6 inches hard. but the new guy im seeing is about 5 soft and like 7 hard. this is very new to me and he’s been great, absolutely a sweetie when it comes to being cautious with me. we have done a lot of foreplay to help me get more relaxed and it has helped, but only helped if i’m on top or if he’s behind me. missionary has been a little difficult because of how much open space there is between the two of us and it can get really uncomfortable. really for any position it starts to get uncomfortable after some time. the longer foreplay has definitely helped to a certain extent. one time we only did missionary and it started off good, but then it started to get uncomfortable as he went deeper and i told him to slow down, which he did. but after he came, it hurt to move for about 30 minutes even after i peed. i was just laying on top of him while he was caressing my back. it felt like i was getting a pap smear without any lubricants. THAT FEELING FOR 30 MINUTES!! i started spotting a bit the day after, i got everything checked at the doctors and they said i was good and my iud was still in place. i’m just hoping someone can tell me how to either get used to it or how to be able to adjust to it. i have orgasmed with him through penetration and that was only when i was on top, and im not going to want to be on top every time lol. he has been very considerate and understanding and wants to know how we can both actually enjoy this. because we both know the vagina is only about 4-6 inches deep as well as depending on my cycle. can any ladies help me out on what i can do or what we BOTH can do in order for me to not feel uncomfortable/pain during sex??

also, while we’re on the topic: how do i give a blowjob to him as well? he’s pretty big than i am used to so any advice about that would be awesome! thanks!!

This feels so TMI typing this out on reddit but I have nowhere else to turn to. Last night, I let my boyfriend fuck my throat. Now, I have a really sore throat and it hurts to swallow or speak. Can I do anything to alleviate it or do I just have to firm it?

I’ve noticed this weird split where older men seem way more hung up on a woman’s body count, while a lot of younger guys either don’t care or say it’s not a big deal.

I’m not even trying to start drama, I just genuinely don’t get it. Is it insecurity? Ego? Traditional values? Fear of comparison? Or is it just that younger guys grew up in a different dating culture and don’t see it as important?

It also feels like some men say they “don’t care,” but then act differently once they actually find out. So I’m wondering if people really mean it when they say body count doesn’t matter, or if they just don’t want to admit it.

I’ve never had penetrative sex, although I’ve done other sexual things.

I’ve heard a lot of people say their first time was really painful and that they even bled, and it’s honestly made me nervous. I’m scared that it’ll be really painful for me too.

The thing is, I can comfortably fit three fingers when i am aroused, and sometimes even four, although I don’t put them all the way in because I get nervous.

Does that mean penetration might not be as painful for me, or is that completely different? Should I actually be worried, or am I overthinking this?

I’d really appreciate hearing other people’s experiences.

I recently posted on here about my rose which I love and now I'm curious about more toys so I was wondering what my next one should be?? rabbit vibes currently look very appealing but I also don't want to spend too much...

What's the greatest porn to watch to learn sex movements or be ready for first-time sex? Please don't pass judgment.

Once more, there is no condemnation or "porn isn't real sex" crap.

Which pornography demonstrates how to get ready for a first sexual encounter?

What kind of pornography features foreplay?

What porn shows how to give a proper blowjob?

How do you properly ride a man? or to perform cowgirl in reverse?

Things like that.

And please, no books.

So I (22F) just got out of a relationship and I’m really not interested in hooking up with random people just because I miss… well that part of being in a relationship I bought my first toy a WhisperRabbit from what I read in the description it’s meant for internal use and also has the little arm for clit stimulation but I’m realizing I have no clue how to use it properly like should I just start on the lowest vibration level and work my way up? Do most people use condoms on toys? Or is there anything I should know before using it for the first time? Also I keep pressing the buttons but nothing is starting I’d rather ask than do something stupid. Any tips or advice would be appreciated.

How often do you given and receive oral sex. Is a required part prior to each time you have actual sex.

Ladies, I am raging and can’t stop.

I’ve had the implant since I was 21. This year, I turned 29 and finally decided to go ‘natural’ and got my implant removed in April.

In May, a couple weeks after removal, my high school cystic acne started to come back but I got that under control (now) with the use of tretinoin. May period was normal.

But in June, a switch flipped and I cannot control my rage. I am completely losing it after any minor inconvenience and my anger is through the roof. I feel so tense at times that its frustrating, especially when it’s for no reason. My sleep hasn’t been as deep as it was before and everything is just UGH.

I have thought about seeing a therapist and am trying different herbal and supplemental remedies to try to control my hormones but some days it’s hard.

Has anyone else gone through this? What helped? How long did it take?

I’m tired of being grumpy and mean 😭

I just my husband does it and has been doing it we don't really talk about it. I know it's not healthy but we haven't been sexual and my friends are telling me I need to take care of myself before I burst. I just feel guilty and I know I shouldn't but I'm mostly worried because I haven't done it in so long I won't be able to get there. I know I'm trapped in my own head I just want someone to tell me is okay I guess

I love the notion of sex-the intimacy, the connection, the way it feels to be utterly wanted. But when it does occur, I just feel a little... meh? Like, I enjoy the setup and the flirtation lot more than the actual act. I thought maybe it was just the guys I’ve been with, but now I’m starting to think it’s me. Anyone else feel this way?

I have been trying to give myself multiple for a while now and the most I could get is two.

I have tried using a vibrator but it hasn't really helped me finish, it only enhanced the over play and experience. After I have my first orgasm, I really struggle on giving myself a second one or more.

Does anyone have any advice on how I could achieve that?