Advice on how to help someone with Relationship OCD
Hey all, so I am, or I guess now was, dating someone that has relationship ocd. Newer relationship but everything was going great until yesterday. She was planning to come over and was super excited and happy to see me then several hours later, it was like a switch was thrown.
I know she has this and she has explained how it causes her to question everything in relationships. She was saying how she doesn’t want to do long distance forever (only 2 hours which isn’t horrible in my opinion) so instead of seeing how things go she just cut it off now. I did say that it seems like this could be what’s causing her to be afraid and worried and she did say she will think about it more and reflect on that possibility. I am giving her space and time to do so. Is there anything that can help from this side of things?
I really like her and she seemed like she was super into me but then just bam, wall. Right now I’m hoping that not chatting all day every day will help her to realize she misses me but I’m not overly optimistic. Any advice or what have you would be awesome. Just kinda heart broken and confused and not sure what to do. I only learned about this form of OCD because of her telling me she has it so I have no clue here.