I can't do sex right.
So I had sex for the first time a while back, had more since with the same girl, we have fun, I listen to her, I really do to the best of my ability. She has some problem with having orgasms, can't bring herself to one and I can't bring her to one, she seems to get very overwhelmed before what we think may be an orgasm, but anyway
My problem is that when I'm actually in her, I can't do anything. I'm physically disabled, chronic pain from mechanical arthritis, nerve pain, scoliosis, hip dysplasia, almost constant muscle pain from physio post surgery and stuff. And it really bothers me that I can't physically play my part very well, at all.
I know I'm new to having sex, but I also know my physical limits. I'm just posting to hear what people have to say/share about this type of thing as it is quite frustrating at times