My husband of 32 years passed suddenly 3 weeks ago
My husband of 32 years passed suddenly 3 weeks ago and my friend told me that it was time for me to get over it and that I was a better person than this! Not sure what she means by this! I stay here and grieve alone or go to my daughters. My friend has not been around me or come to see me since the day of his death. No meal, no calls, nothing, then Monday she called and asked me to come over and proceeded to tell me it was time for me to get over it!
My husband and I adopted one of our granddaughters last August who we have had custody of since she was 18 months old and we are navigating this tragedy as best we can. I just have outbursts of crying out of the blue. I can’t help it! I live and miss him.
He was the love of my life, my whole world! We met and dated one month and married after one month and were madly in love with each other for 32 years God gave us! I’m only, devastated and heartbroken! Not sure how to navigate this! I’ve never been here before and the pain is killing me! I don’t understand why she would say these things to me. I’m so lost and confused. I truly don’t think I’ll ever be over it! The pain is unreal.