One of my babies is missing, looking for support with grief
It’s day 5 of my siamese cat Maru escaping through an open window and no trace of him since. We are in bits over it… losing steam, losing hope. The guilt I feel for absentmindedly leaving that window open kills me everyday. I’m sick with dread and worry.
Not looking for advice to bring him home, we’ve already exhausted every option, alerted the local pound and shelter, scent beacon, food/water station, active searching day and night, posted in all local facebook groups, printed flyers and posted them and handed them around the neighbourhood, added a reward if found, etc.etc.etc. even did some witchcraft (spell jar).
Just looking for some support with the grief process. This is the most terrible pain I’ve ever been through, it’s so hard to cope with. Also 2 of my other cats were extremely bonded with Maru and are grieving too, they’ve been waiting at the window for him to return, I can just feel how depressed they are, how do I help them?
Thank you to everyone in advance💔