u/GrapefruitNo551

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How do you sustain a new connection/love interest, INTJs?

I’m currently seeing an INTJ and he’s told me he’s really liked me, we hug and have intimate emotional moments (no sex yet). At the beginning he would meet me 3 times a week and tells me he wants to see me, meet me, but now it’s starting to dwindle. But he would still currently make the time to call me a few times a week, we meet each other sometimes once every few weeks (depending on our work schedules). When in person we are quite amazing together, good connection emotionally, and I can tell he likes it as much as I do and wants to continue seeing me and prolonging the moment. However I am anxious and he has bad texting habits. I won’t hear from him a few days at a time sometimes, and he doesn’t reply me sometimes so it drives me quite anxious.

Put me out of my pain…. Please tell me if this is INTJ behaviour? I really like him and want to keep trying as I think it’s worth it.

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u/GrapefruitNo551 — 7 days ago