Anxiety/Jealousy issues I am struggling with, despite being totally okay with my partner's other partner who has been there for years.
Hey guys. I'm relatively new to this concept. 2 years in, lots of ups and downs, lots of learning. And I feel fulfilled and happy with our relationship; don't get me wrong. When we got together, she had another partner, who she still has. When they're spending time together, there is no trouble at all. Not even a tiny pang of negative feels. I'm even good friends with him.
But when she hits it off with someone new, it just makes me super anxious and spooked. And like... I find myself comparing myself to the new person (which I know is a big no-no, working on that.) And like. I feel like my sour moods about it tend to... Discourage her? Which I also don't want to do, I have the same freedoms of physicality that she does. And I want that balance upheld.
I just... Struggle to. She has much more experience in this, where I am still learning. I would love to have a good talk about this; so I can try some things and grow personally, as well as be a better partner for my lady.
And yes, my account IS brand new, my old accounts got compromised and banned. I know this may look sketchy that way.
EDIT: Forgot to mention I also had another partner in the beginning. But it broke off about a year ago. Issues on her end, good terms. Haven't met anyone since that I really vibed with as far as romance goes.