16F 17M in a relationship for 1 year need boyfriend advice!
16F in a relationship for 1 year.
I don't have much friends or ppl to talk to in general, so I mostly just talk and hangout with him all the time. He has met with my parents but my parents don't like me in a relationship but eventually got used to it.
All of the sudden my mom is telling me to break up with him since I lost my honor title. She probably thinks that it's because I have a bf. It's not. I've been struggling with mental health and my bf helps me with it since my parents don't care enough. I do want to listen to my parents. It's just too much for me mentally and emotionally. Without my bf I probably would've gone crazy since I have a hard time opening up to my family members and since I don't have close enough friends to talk to I obviously go to my bf.
My problem is I don't know what to do. Whatever I do it will hurt somebody I love and myself. It will affect me mentally, emotionally, and overall my life. It's been hard on me mentally the past few months. I've been bedrotting and slowly becoming more and more depressed every time I think about it and it feels like I have nobody to go to since I don't want to hurt my bf and tell him all the hardwork he did to earn my parents approval and trust is just gone.
Other family members have been backing up my parents since they don't believe we will last anyways since we were still young. It's just depressing since what they say
does hurt. I don't want to break up with him.
I'm asking for advice from people. Please be kind :)