Overthinking or selfish lang ako
Problem/Goal: Overthinking lang ba ako sa jowa ko or selfish lang ako na hindi ko narin ma explain
Context:
Sorry if ang gulo first time mag post sa reddit T-T
Im M(24) and my Girlfriend of 6 years (23) we recently just turned 6 years this month and recently I have been off lang talaga for the past few months or so.
I have been with her through ups and downs well for me I really don’t have problems in life naman since my family is toxic I just didn’t give a fuck about my family side that much anymore (anyways I digress)
Don’t get me wrong I really love my girlfriend i give her compliments, take her out on a date, spoils her basically do everything what a good boyfriend should do, but recently there’s this one thing in my head that’s been bothering me, di na kasi siya mejo touchy sakin unlike before and our sex life is also going downhill by the month and that’s been bothering me, like is she not sexually attracted to me anymore? Did she found someone new na mas attracted sakin or I don’t know, I work out a lot but hey if you offer me a cookie i’d eat it a type of guy.
Naguguluhan lang ako and I opened it up sakanya kahapon why are we not doing it as much as we used to and she said she doesn’t know why and dedma when i suggested to try winkbars (aphrodisiac brownies) I wanted to give it a spice manlang since first girlfriend ko siya I haven’t unlocked this chapter on my book so I dunno if nag ooverthink lang ako or maybe she is not sexually attracted to me anymore but she says she loves me naman and she’ll always support me kung anong gusto ko.
Ow and btw she works na pala and i completely understand if she is not in the mood all the time kasi pagod siya that’s why I always give her her favorite drink para manlang mawala stress niya and pagod niya. Im 24 and still studying because i took a gap year for 2 years so yes. Need help or advice since love ko siya but i just don’t know why she won’t do it with me anymore like she used to and she is not as touchy and clingy as before has she found another guy na or is this a ticking time bomb baka sawa na siya sakin or maybe selfish lang ako.
Hopefully di magulo story ko talon nalang ako pag di nyo naintindihan feel free to ask questions and help me be better and my relationship with my girlfriend. :)))