u/GreenRepeat1914

My nerereto saakin close friend ko.

Problem/Goal:
A little bit of background about me:
So I am 24M, and also a working professional as a IT intructor. Ever since I was a teen, I never had a chance to date a girl probably out of responsibility for being the breadwinner. Kaya mostly school then bahay then help with the chores lang ako around the house. I have close friends that are girls so communication to opposite sex is not that issue, I also have an MU to a girl I meet online when i am a high school tho that did not last but we are able to get attached and invested when one another thru chat and even meet up personally during fiesta kaso after few months our conversation grew cold and after that we never chatted each other again. Ever since nasa college ako I didnt actually tried to pursue any girls since I made a promise to mom to finish my studies first and I was able to graduate and able to work after a month of my graduation. So that's a bit of my background.
Ito na ngaa.....
Looking back now, my friends and close friends are always asking when I will pursue a girl, pero di ako pressured, it's just that I can't seem to put time and effort yet due to other priorities. But now, 10 months after working, my close friend(girl) who works away from me, basically 6 hour ride just to get to her place(I dont want to be too specific since baka mabasa nya haha). My nirereto sya na workmate nya with the same kind of ugali saakin and we are chatting for few days na, honestly we are still in the getting to know stage but I enjoy conversing with her so much, but i dont know when can I call this love or if I am just being overjoyed to be able to chat to someone who I don't know personally and that is also a girl. I need advice on how should I continue. I am still thinking when to pursue her, not a friend but an intent to be her partner. I want to know more about her and I also want to meet her soon. Should I continue the current status quo? I need your inputs, sorry I am just so new to this hahaha !!!!

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u/GreenRepeat1914 — 5 days ago