Women with a higher sex drive than your male partner… how do you handle the “do I wait or just go sort myself out?” dilemma? 😂
My partner and I are a little out of sync sexually. I generally want sex more often than he does, which honestly isn’t a huge issue. He’s completely comfortable telling me to go sort myself out when he’s not feeling it, and I’m completely happy to do that 😂
BUT HERE IS MY PROBLEM.
If there’s a decent chance he’s going to want sex later, I would MUCH rather wait for him.
So sometimes I’m sitting there horny AF thinking… do I wait? Is something happening later? Am I wasting perfectly good horniness waiting for a man who is going to go to sleep? 😂
Meanwhile I’ve waited long enough that I’m reaching the point of: sir, I need an ETA. Are you planning on fucking me later or do I need to take matters into my own hands? 😅
Obviously I can just ask him...and I do but I’m genuinely curious how other higher-libido women/couples handle this.
Do you ask outright if sex is likely later? Have some kind of signal? Just masturbate whenever you want and if sex happens later, round two? 😂 Do you “save it” if you think your partner might be keen?
Please tell me other couples have horny logistics meetings too 😂