u/Green_Evidence4518

Seeking advice on reddit as a lower middle class is a humiliation.

Seeking advice on reddit as a lower middle class is a humiliation.

We already know that indian reddit & discord consists of an audience that is upper middle class or rich.

When I got to the careers sub, they simply can't comprehend that someone is earning 20k and they're unable to give advice not to mention visiting these subs can alone make you feel like a loser.

Frugal india sub. I asked for laptop and phone recommendation I was told to buy a MacBook and 60k+ phone. I know both of them are not bad advice but buddy I'm on frugal sub how do you think reccomending a laptop who's any damage will cost 35k+ is a good suggestion.

Running sub- they will recommend you budget shoes but will also remind you how less you're spending.

Discord - the way people communicate there, don't make me a part of conversation implies that they're not poor atleast and have decent family support to support NEET life.

Every sub feels that they're a little out of touch and ofcourse none of these sub recommend.

I can never fit in with so cool people, whether online or offline.

u/Green_Evidence4518 — 2 days ago

I wasted 2-3 years in online groups

I was so down for validation that I used to sit hours on reddit and discord. Thinking I am making friends there, at least some.

But when I look back no one remembers me. It is as fake as real world.

Most people in these spaces are either from good backgrounds so they can afford living in isolation or some are already doing jobs but they portray their life in such a way that you will feel more validated and waste your years chasing attention.

Seeking online validation is the biggest mistake I made.

This is my opinion and has many nuisance to it.

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u/Green_Evidence4518 — 4 days ago

I am an idiot 😭

So I came to the conclusion that I am dumb. I mess up at my work place, every team member got an appraisal except me. It's justified but I wish if they could adjust the inflation.

I have so weak reasoning. Even new joiners outperform me, it's not like I don't try but everytime I just do more cringe stuff 🥲

Now I don't even feel bad about it I have kinda accepted this but as I got nothing to loose I will still try to improve myself

Peace ✌️

u/Green_Evidence4518 — 12 days ago