Why is it so uncomfortable to set boundaries? I obsess about it so much it's easier to give in and I'm disappointed with myself.
I find this to be especially true with setting boundaries towards other woman thinking they'll judge me because they don't have the same boundaries.
How can I live with the uncomfortableness and guilt? I feel like in the short term people pleasing feels better but worse in the long term. I don't know what to do.
u/Greeneyednerd — 4 hours ago