i caught my boyfriend holding hands with another guy… and now i don’t know what to think
i’m 26 and a few days ago i accidentally saw my boyfriend out in public with another guy while i was with a friend.
at first i honestly thought maybe i was overthinking it, but then i saw them holding hands and acting way more intimate than what i’d personally consider normal friendship behavior, the worst part is he hasn’t mentioned this person to me before at all.
i haven’t confronted him yet because i genuinely don’t know how to approach it without sounding accusatory, especially since part of me is wondering if there’s something deeper going on that he hasn’t told me about.
now my brain keeps going back and forth between:
“maybe there’s an explanation”
and
“why would he hide this from me in the first place?”
i also feel guilty because i don’t want to immediately jump to conclusions about his sexuality or accuse him of cheating without hearing him out first.