Beautiful views over the Julian Alps in Triglav National Park — one of those hikes where every turn looks unreal. Alpine lakes, sharp peaks, and silence that makes you stop walking just to take it in.
I’ve realized that my perfectionism is kind of taking over everything — not just work, but also my personal life and even things that are supposed to be relaxing, like holidays.
At work, I overthink every detail and spend way too long trying to get things “just right,” which slows me down and stresses me out. In my personal life, I feel like I’m constantly trying to optimize everything — routines, habits, even how I spend my free time.
What really hit me recently is that I can’t even enjoy holidays or time off without trying to plan the “perfect” experience. If something doesn’t go as expected, I get frustrated instead of just going with it.
I know this isn’t sustainable, and honestly it’s making me enjoy life less.
Has anyone here managed to let go of perfectionism? What actually helped you shift your mindset or habits?